Coming out is the most crucial phase in life of an LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) teen. This phase is usually marred by fears of rejection, misunderstandings and vulnerability. The struggle to disclose their sexual identity does not end inside the security of the teen’s home, but the response from peers and community makes the task all the more difficult. LGBT teens are particularly targeted by bullies at school for their sexual orientation. In facing bullying support from parents of gay children becomes necessary to make the latter resilient and strong against bullies.

This can only come through education and understanding of sexual diversity. Experts believe ‘coming out’ is the opportunity that parents can seize to build an honest, open and a strong relationship with their teens. This is the time when LGBT teens rely most on their parents to shield and prepare them to deal with bullies at school and adversaries in society.

Following are some useful techniques through which parents of LGBT teens can make the process of coming out and adjusting in the society easier.

Nurture self-esteem and individuality

The first tactic of a bully is to identify and exploit the weakness of the victim. Parents should nurture self-esteem and positive self-identity in their LGBT teens, so that they do not fall prey to the vicious slurs and pressure from their peers. Parents should reassure their kids of their unconditional love and support regardless of their sexual orientation.

Teach them to be patient

Sometimes teenage is an early time to be sure of one’s sexual orientation. Parents should teach their kids to be patient and encourage their teens to question their interests rather than rushing towards a label. But don’t take your teens’ same-sex attractions as merely a "passing phase".

Help your teen to bond

Make efforts to normalize the time for your teens after they come out. Provide a supportive and understanding environment at home while trying to help them make adjustments in their social life. Invite their friends over at your place to provide a safe place to socialize with adult supervision. This way parents can help their kids socialize with peers in the protection of their house before going out in the world.

Ensure safety at schools

In an ideal world, kids should be given education in a harassment-free environment, but in reality thousands of kids are teased, bullied, harassed, shamed and abused daily for being different. Parents should keep in contact with their teens’ teachers and school administration to ensure their children’s safety in schools.